Introductory Notes
A WORD OF CAUTION! During times like this it is easy
for pastors and farmers to become bitter and fall into the trap
of blaming others. Conspiracy theories abound - and most
conspiracies contain a just enough truth to be believable.
Discussions of what is happening and who might be to blame
should take place in a setting other than worship and that
seeking justice be carefully considered in the light of Christ.
The primary pastoral response is caring for victims and
secondary responses should be approached in love and
understanding. All protests should be non-violent even in the
midst of righteous anger.The following service is from the Catholic Rural Life magazine,
July, 1986 pgs 13-14; adapted for worship. The reflection may
not only be on the psalms but on other scripture such as
Habakkuk 3:17-19a:
Though the fig tree does not
bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop
fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep
in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, 18 yet I will
rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior. 19
The Sovereign LORD is my strength; he makes my feet like the
feet of a deer, he enables me to go on the heights.
Or Rom 8:22-26:
We know that the whole
creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right
up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we
ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan
inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the
redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were
saved. 25 But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who
hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not
yet have, we wait for it patiently. 26 In the same way,
the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we
ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with
groans that words cannot express.
and this quote:
"God is our support. God
is our security. Nothing else is. Being secure and supported
doesn’t mean we’re not vulnerable. God supports us, but he
doesn’t protect us any more than he protects the hungry of the
world. He doesn’t stop the boss from laying us off, nor does
he stop the bill-collector from dunning us, nor does he stay the
departing spouse. But if we let him, he hold us together when
outrage strikes. If we root and ground ourselves in love,
we’ll begin to learn the love of Christ that surpasses
knowledge" – George Sheridan, "Taproot" in
"Seeds," August 1984.
or if you prefer literary quotes:
"And the dry years would
come and sometimes there would only be seven or eight inches of
rain. "The land dried up and the grasses headed out
miserably a few inches high and great bare scabby places
appeared in the valley. The live oaks got a crusty look and the
cattle listlessly nibbled dry twigs. Then the farmers and the
ranchers would be filled with disgust for the Salinas Valley.
The cows would grow thin and sometimes starve to death. People
would have to haul water in barrels to their farms just for
drinking. Some families would sell out for nearly nothing and
move away. And it never failed that during the dry years the
people forgot about the rich years, and during the wet years,
they lost all memory of the dry years. It was always that
way." – John Steinbeck, "East of Eden."
Prayer Service for the
Loss of the Farm
Traditionally family and friends
gather on the vigil of a funeral to mourn and pray at the loss
of a member of the community. The evening before a family moves
from their farm can also be a special time of prayer. It is a
time for close friends to gather and mourn, pray, support, and
send forth the family to a new future. It provides neighbors and
parishioners with an opportunity to say in prayer and ritual
what they hold deep in their hearts and cannot find words to
express. These prayers are written to represent what the family
experienced during the loss of their farm. It is probably not
appropriate for them to lead these prayers themselves at this
sensitive time.
Leader
Heavenly Father, we gather here
this evening to honor the (family name) family, (individual
names); they have been our friends and neighbors for many years.
They have contributed to our lives and our community by their
hard work, good example and virtuous living. We thank you for
their presence with us. We ask you to send our Spirit upon them
this evening to give them courage as they take a new step in the
journey of their lives. We ask this in Christ’s name. Amen.
Mother’s Prayer
(to be prayed by a woman in the group who represents all
mother’s undergoing the stress of the loss of a farm):
I’ve been asking for a miracle,
Lord. And it hasn’t happened yet. Do you even hear me? Perhaps
more than the miracle, I need courage. Right now I’m scared
and I know Frank is scared, too, I worry about him. He doesn’t
look well. He’s been working so hard. I’ll be glad when we
move and settle down again. Did I really say that? I can’t let
Frank know that I just want to move and get it over with. What
I’m concerned about most is keeping my family together, Lord.
Help us to get through these next few days.
Father’s Prayer
(to be prayed by a man who represents all farmers worried about
losing their farms):
God, I didn’t think it would
happen to me. But I got my notice, too, and time is running out.
You’ve got to help me through this. I have to be strong for my
family. But I feel like I’m falling apart. Why did you let
this happen to me? I worked so hard all these years and
they’re taking everything away from me.
Child’s Prayer
(to be prayed by a child, representing all farm children
experiencing the loss of their farm):
God, maybe you can answer me.
Will they sell my swing set, too? When I asked Dad he yelled at
me. When I said something to Mom, she just turned away. But I
want to know what is happening. Everyone looks so sad. I hear
them talk about moving. Dad is getting things ready for the
sale. People look at us funny in town. The neighbors talk to Mom
about helping us. But no one talks to me. Can you give me some
answers, God?
Neighbor’s Prayer
My neighbors are losing their
farm. How can I tell them how awful I feel? How can I tell them
that I will miss them? I don’t know what to say. People keep
asking me about them. I know the signs all too well from
watching others go through it. Yesterday I took them a pie - I
was met with embarrassed silence. I felt like I was intruding. I
couldn’t even say, "How are you doing?" When I call,
Sara says she has to go. John can’t get Roger to even give him
the time of day. When I see Sara in town I want to say,
"I’m sorry," but the words get stuck in my throat.
They will leave and I will wish I had said something. Just like
when the Bradleys left. I felt so helpless ...
Reader: Psalm
142 - You are My Refuge
Reflection
(The leader can comment on the
tone of the psalm, a person in distress describes the condition
to God and then expresses hope in God. The coming months, even
years, will be a time for this family to realize its utter
dependency on God. Perhaps those present could be able to help
complete the mother’s, father’s, and child’s prayers to
express greater confidence in God to be with them in the
future.)
Action
A gift of soil from the
family’s farm can be presented to them in a vase or glass
container. Also a book of psalms can be given to the family or
each member of the family to rely on in prayer in the days to
come.
Blessing
(The leader goes to each member
of the family and places his/her hands upon each one’s head in
silence. Then prays the following blessing.)
Lord Jesus, as you prepared to
leave your disciples you told them, "Do not let your hearts
be troubled. Peace I give to you, my peace I leave with you. A
peace that the world cannot give. This is my gift to you."
We ask you to touch this family with your gift of peace. Lead
them and guide them as they travel away from here. As they have
gifted us with their presence, send others into their lives as
gifts for them in their need. May they be your light to each
other in their new home. May they take your love with them to
their new neighborhood and share it abundantly with their new
friends and neighbors. When they are lonely, remind them of the
love we have shared here and continue to have for them. Help us
to grow in this love and friendship even though we may be
separated by distance. We ask you to be with them always and
make your presence felt in their hearts. We ask this in Your
name. Amen.
Sign of Peace
Refreshments
Another Resource
A publication called "Gentle
Rain on Parched Earth" may be helpful. It includes a
service entitled "Liturgy for Leaving a Property" (for
any number of reasons including rural recession, with special
awareness of properties being owned and worked by successive
generations under one family). Published by United Education in
Australia, it is a compilation of worship resources for rural
settings. It is edited by Philip Liebelt and Noel Nicholls.
Material in the book may be reproduced for use in individual
worship services or for use in local congregations only.
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