We may not be able to build
a perfectly welcoming table overnight, but hard work and good intentions
can yield positive results in even a short time
University of Colorado at Boulder
...I'm gonna sit at the welcome table one of these
days...(traditional
spiritual)
At the "welcome table" of the traditional
African-American Spiritual, people are able to deeply
share all of their troubles, joys, and sorrows with each
other and with God. As all of us know who do ministry,
the type of community embedded in this metaphor takes
time to build and is often hard won through pain as well
as joy.
This also applies to my interfaith work on campus at
the University of Colorado, Boulder (CU). There, one
"table" is filled with 20 representatives from
most of the religious groups on campus who make up the
"Religious Campus Organizations" (RCO).
Another "table" is located inside the Summer
Orientation Organization Fair, and behind it are my RCO
colleagues.
And finally, there's a large conference table where I
sit at a monthly meeting in my role as RCO president,
along with all the directors in the Division of Student
Affairs at the university.
These three different tables speak of a broader
welcome and inclusion, not only in terms of interfaith
work but also of a partnership relationship between the
religious groups and the university.
Precipitating Events
When I arrived at CU more than five years ago, the
type of interaction and entrée that these tables
represent was something I could only dream of. All that
existed then was United Campus Ministries (UCM),
comprised of 12 mainstream and evangelical groups, and
Hillel, the Jewish ministry. UCM met monthly and never
interacted much with the other religious groups on
campus.
Then, about three years ago, two significant events
happened, and a new vision emerged. One event was the
arrival of a new Dean of Students, who believed that a
partnership of campus ministers and the university could
work together in student development.
The other event was the suicide of a student, who hung
himself in a campus dormitory. He belonged to a religious
group at CU that engages in "cultic practices."
Some members of this group who were Resident Advisors in
the dorms offered a "reason" for his suicide,
saying that "his faith wasn't strong enough."
The housing staff was appalled, and they called on UCM
members for help.
We responded with an event on "Cult
Awareness," and a conversation began about forming a
larger religious organization that would contain all the
"legitimate" groups on campus. Using models
shared by my Lutheran Campus Ministry colleagues, we
developed a purpose statement and an ethics code. Thus,
RCO was born.
Visible Results
After two years I began to feel that we had made
definite progress. Response to the tragic events of
September 11, 2001 illustrated that very well. The
university immediately pulled together its "Crisis
Incident Response Group" and asked RCO officers to
attend those meetings. Together, we developed a plan for
"drop-in counseling centers," utilizing the
counseling services staff from campus in partnership with
campus ministers.
In addition, all the campus ministers now carry staff
ID cards with "Campus Minister" printed on
them. We are seen as a resource to the campus community
rather than as a group of people to be tolerated or even
mistrusted.
As I said before, both joys and sorrows result from
sitting at these tables. Increased credibility, as well
as increased visibility with some of our RCO staff
serving on university committees, are some of the joys.
Another is sitting at orientation tables and learning
more about different religious traditions from my
colleagues and growing in mutual respect and
understanding for each other.
My colleagues and I, however, are still learning to
trust one another as we sit at a common RCO information
table. We promote every group, not just our own, but some
still struggle with that theologically. I am hoping that
they will come to understand that "sitting at the
table" doesn't mean compromising our own beliefs or
faith traditions but rather respecting each other's
enough to offer information to students so that they can
make a choice.
Practicing Hospitality
The "welcome table" of which the Spirituals
speak is an image of true hospitality and welcome that
occurs finally at our heavenly home. I have been both
truly blessed and deeply challenged by sitting around
three earthly versions of that table here on campus. I
feel I'm offering the best of my Lutheran tradition by
seeking community and understanding around these tables,
and I know the students appreciate the unity and the
diversity they see when we work together.
So, when you come to CU to visit, look for me sitting
behind one of these "welcome tables." I'm the
one wearing the button that says, "Ask Me about
Lutheran Campus Ministry!"
Laurel E. Alexander is
an ELCA campus pastor working with students who attend
the University of Colorado, Boulder.
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