Students, while away from
their "home" congregation, are still a part of your community. Here are
some guidelines to help your congregation minister to them
| To: SmithRev@StMartinsLC.org
From: MaryL@College.edu
Subject: Thanks!
Got the invitation
to breakfast, I will be there over spring break.
Things sound great at St. Martins. This semester
has been a challenge. I look forward to our
visit. Off to class. Miss you all. :-) Mary
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The transition from high school
to college and from "home" to a resident hall
room can be a very challenging, and for some, a
traumatic, one for our college-bound students.
Congregations can help make that transition easier by
striving to keep in touch with them during their years in
higher education.
The following three suggestions
are meant to be "thought" starters on how you
might accomplish that goal. Some ideas are rather
obvious, but their importance to the students cannot be
over-emphasized.
Other suggestions are ones which
students have told us they appreciate.
Our final thoughts are based on
the new computer-based technology which has now become a
normal part of young adult life.
Part of Congregation
As a congregation, strive to
embrace your college students as a continuing part of
your church community.
Students enjoy receiving the
parish newsletter and, when possible, the weekly
bulletin. This seems rather obvious, but many parishes
fail to put their college students on their "mailing
list." The congregation should not assume that their
parents are keeping the student informed of parish
happenings. Besides, everyone likes to receive mail!
Also, remember, a student
subscription to The Lutheran, which covers the
school year, is available. This subscription can be
especially meaningful if the student is studying in
another state (and thus another synod) because the synod
supplement can keep them informed of local events.
One parish we know sends care
packages to their students. The package includes letters
from some of the members (perhaps a women's circle or a
men's group) and the all important "study
snacks" which could be candy or cookies or whatever
else would make for a nice study break. With the U.S.
Postal Service offering "priority mail" at $3,
what an inexpensive and easy way to let your students
know that you care and that you miss them.
When students come home for
holiday or semester breaks, invite them to be a part of
worship, the education program, or the music program. In
short, remind them that they are needed in your church
community and that you appreciate their being there. They
might not always accept the invitation, but the gesture
alone speaks volumes about your congregation's desire
that young adults be involved in parish life.
Issues of Faith
Give these young adults the
space and support to struggle with issues of faith and
surprise them with the grace of God to engage in that
struggle.
Depending on the personality of
the student, the college years can be a stressful time in
terms of their faith life. They will be challenged in
many ways with new ideas. This is necessary for growth
into adulthood and mature discipleship. Keep your
students in the weekly prayers of the church as they
engage in this struggle. Pray for them, their professors,
and their campus pastors!
Pastors can share in this
transition by talking to the students about their faith
struggles when they are home. We heard of one pastor who
hosts a "pastor's breakfast" every Christmas
and Easter break. The pastor invites students to
breakfast and lets them share their insights and
struggles with faith and ethics.
Pastors with students in
church-related colleges and universities where religion
courses are often required, could ask the students to
share their thoughts on the books they are reading for
classes. This can serve to keep the pastor sharp too as
she/he hears of current theology and theologians being
discussed in higher education!
E-Mail, E-mail, E-mail
Remember to use the latest
technology, or to put it simply: e-mail, e-mail, e-mail.
When prospective students come
to visit Pacific Lutheran University (PLU) where we work,
they no longer ask if the rooms in our residential halls
are linked to the Internet. They really what to know what
hardware and software make that link.
Students today are in
conversation with each other and with students around the
world through the Internet. We are only beginning to
learn about the possibilities and potential of this form
of communication.
At PLU, the student congregation
now has an e-mail prayer chain. Instead of individual
telephone calls to each member of the prayer chain, the
student in charge sends out a group e-mail with the
specifics of the prayer request. Since we started this,
we have more people involved in the prayer chain and more
prayer requests.
Most college students today have
a free internet address through their college or
university. Pastors, youth ministers, and church staff
can easily stay in touch with students if they too have
the technology or, better yet, if the church has the
technology. The beauty of this form of communication is
that one can type a message and send it to all of your
college students at once, as a group.
We have heard of youth directors
who e-mail a weekly devotion to their college students.
If one of the students replies to the devotion, the youth
director can respond personally. A pastor or church staff
worker might do a weekly or a monthly letter to all
college students with a devotional message and newsworthy
items from home.
Computer technology is new for
many of our churches. Hence, you can be creative as you
use it to stay in touch with the congregation's college
and university students.
In conclusion, when
congregations take the time to reach out and keep in
touch with their college students, it is greatly
appreciated. It means more than a student might ever tell
you. But as you do this, it will help them make the
transition into college and adult discipleship.
As campus pastors, we appreciate
and value our partnership with congregations. We do want
to assist you in ministering to your students while on
our campuses.
ELCA pastors Nancy
J. Connor and Dennis G. Sepper are
campus ministers at Pacific Lutheran University, Tacoma,
Washington.
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