Click on any of the links below to
find tools that take “simple living” to deeper and broader
importance in your congregation. Some of the tools help you
start a program; others insert simplicity into programs
that already exist. Still other tools just help you talk
together. All of the tools can precede or follow a
performance of THE RACE: A Simplicity Musical.
Taking a gut check
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For a few moments, stop running – like Dave or his treadmill
buddies – and settle down to some intuitive thinking. Grab
a cup of coffee, tea or other refreshments; sit with a
couple of leaders in your congregation and take a “gut
check” that assesses your feelings about the present state
of the world. This may be a good thing for all of you,
especially if you’ve been “Sunday polite” with each other
for so long that you actually believe that everyone’s just
fine except you!
- Take some time to get beyond
moaning and groaning, and talk honestly about matters such
as these:
- What will be the state of the
environment or the economy five years from now?
- What kind of world will your children live in when they’re
your age?
- What’s pushing you to live in ways that aren’t really
working very well?
- How often do you say to yourselves, “Things just can’t
keep going on this way?”
- What’s broken and isn’t getting fixed?
- Who’s secretly living simply because they have no other
economic choice?
- Who do you know that’s downshifted or downsized? How’s it
working out?
- What’s missing in the way you live?
- What are you afraid of? Why?
If evidence–statistics, stories,
pictures, reports–is helpful alongside your intuition, talk
about that, too. (A good question to start the accumulation
of factual matter: “How do you know?”) But don’t turn this
conversation into a head trip that deteriorates into
arguments about accuracy or authority. What you’re after
here is a sharing of feelings, so that you can see together
the interior parts of your brain. So you can see how each of
you is thinking about the thousands of decisions that
comprise your lifestyle.
If you want to formalize this
process, keep track of what you learn from each other, then
form some more coffee-conversation groups and go through the
same questions. Pretty soon you’ll accumulate a lot of good
thinking. Look at your notes and see the patterns–repeated
ideas, connections, causes-and-effects. If you’re willing to
ask “What should we do next?” you’re ready to take the first
action steps toward a congregation program.
If not, don’t worry. You still
have the rest of your life to figure this out!
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Bible conversation guide: Worry
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Matthew 6:25-34
Key concepts
- As a way of thinking, unhelpful
worry received a lot of Jesus’ attention.
- God’s natural world has some lessons to teach us.
- Only life’s most basic necessities are talked about here.
Background
In his famous “Sermon on the
Mount” Jesus treats extensively the subjects of worry,
anger, prayer and blessedness. The lesson and the implied
invitation are clear: Stop worrying because worry gains you
nothing. Even fears about not having enough of life’s most
basic needs aren’t helpful.
Items for discussion or sharing
- If Jesus had been talking to
rich people like the musical’s hero, Dave or us –instead of
his poverty-stricken peasant class audience–what thoughts
might he have added to this sermon?
- What other lessons about worry (and contentment) might
you learn from the natural world?
- What’s the opposite of worry?
- Talk about the physiological and emotional results of
protracted or widespread worry.
- How do fear and worry complement or strengthen each
other?
- How might you say “Don’t worry” to someone whose life has
been filled with danger, despair or depression? (How did
Lily approach the subject?)
- Talk about the relationship of “simple living” to the
concepts in these verses.
Activities and next steps
- On the Web find current
measures or standards of “happiness” and its components.
Talk about your research with others.
- Use any Web search engine tool to find a list of
currently identifiable phobias–fears with names. What
patterns do you notice?
- As an act of repentance, write the names of your
worrisome fears (or fearsome worries) on slips of paper. As
a sign of God’s forgiveness, place them in a fireplace or
campfire and watch them burn to nothingness.
- Tell stories of worry-moments that turned out to be
harmful or silly. Listen for patterns in the stories and
talk about them with each other.
- Sing or listen to the musical’s “What Do They Want From
Me” and answer Dave’s questions as though you were talking
with him. What IS he worried about?1
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Stimulating Bible references
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Directions: Use this list of
sometimes-surprising Scriptural references as the basis for
personal devotions and important conversations.
Bible passage possible topics for
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Deuteronomy 14:22-29 The three surprising tithes |
Ecclesiastes 5:11 A definition of “more” and its effects |
Acts 2:43-47 Life in the early church |
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1 Kings 17:8-16 Starvation stopped |
Ecclesiastes 5:18-20 The enjoyment of God’s good gifts |
2 Corinthians 8:9 The selfless life of Jesus |
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Job 8:20-22 What goes around comes around |
Joel 2:12-13 Reasons for repentance |
2 Corinthians 9:8 Good works from abundant capabilities |
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Psalm 130 Hitting the bottom |
Amos 8:4-10 God’s punishment for economic injustice |
Colossians 3:10-17 The new person in each of us |
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Psalm 144 Happy people
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Matthew 23:1-12 Leadership in religious matters |
James 1:9-11 Poor people and rich people |
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Ecclesiastes 1:2 “Vanity’ as a motivation for materialism |
John 7:1-7 The loneliness of a lifestyle leader |
1 Peter 4:1-11 Being faithful to God |
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Ecclesiastes 3:1-14 What time is it, really? |
John 20:30-31 True life because of faith in Jesus |
Revelation 3:14-22 A letter to a church not unlike yours |
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Simplicity starter vocabulary
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Directions: Use these words and
phrases as subject matter for prayers, small group sharing,
poetry, and letter-writing. Make concept maps by grouping
words and phrases into “families”; find photos and
advertisements that illustrate these words and phrases;
build bulletin boards around these concepts.
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Avarice
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Contentment
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Displeasure |
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Fear of death
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Shopping addiction
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Generosity |
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Information overload
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Giving away one’s life
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Sense of
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Poverty of spirit
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Joy in simplicity
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The mind of Christ |
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The way of the cross |
Brain’s pleasure center |
Peer pressure |
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More |
Sufficiency |
Ebullience |
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Enough |
Celebrate |
Suffer |
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Hermit |
Gratitude |
Small and beautiful |
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Death by slow degree |
Materialism |
Over-extended |
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Overweight |
Unburdened |
Guilt |
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One’s lot in life |
Pay now or pay later |
Truth wins out |
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Giving and receiving |
Living with less |
Living with more |
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Godly |
Self-sacrifice |
Rewards |
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Grace |
Sinful nature |
God will provide |
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Fear of running out |
Hoarding |
Speed kills |
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Overkill |
McMansions |
Living beyond one’s means |
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Television programs |
Fast food |
Fast cars |
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Smell the flowers |
Toxic lifestyle |
Voluntary simplicity |
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Forced simplicity |
Blessing |
Dying with the most toys |
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Stewardship |
Career goals |
Promotion |
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Taste and see that the Lord is good |
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Barriers to simple living
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Directions: Use this list of
simple ideas as a way to start conversations in a group
interested in lifestyle matters. Each sentence or idea might
represent a thought, feeling or activity that gets in the
way of God’s people living joyfully and with contentment.
Perhaps you can add to the list.
- As soon as I get enough money
to live on, I’ll start being generous.
- Get what you can get while you can get it.
- The Lord helps those who help themselves.
- What right do you have in judging how I should live my
life?
- There’s nothing wrong with being comfortable, is there?
- Simple living is too hard to think about right now. Maybe
later, okay?
- I really enjoy shopping; it makes me feel good about
myself.
- My lifestyle comes as a reward for my hard work in life;
I deserve it.
- It’s a free country.
- All this church wants is money; that’s all the pastor
talks about.
- It’s my money; I earned it and I’ll do with it what I
want to.
- I work hard for the sake of my children.
- I’m a good person down deep.
- Slow down? And watch everyone else pass me by?
- Eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die.
- You want me to change my way of living? Why? What good
would it do?
- _______________________________________________________________
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Our days are numbered
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A sermon starter for Lent [see also "Hunger
Sermon Starters"]
Psalm 90
Use these thoughts and your text
study to construct a sermon related to lifestyle education
during Lent.
During Lent we face the ominous
prospect that our sinfulness is the cause not only of
Christ’s suffering and death, but also of the pain and
suffering in the world. Because that sinful state extends
throughout the days and stages of our lives, we are called
to continual confession and forgiveness. Psalm 90 summarizes
one of the major cycles of Christian living:
Confession/forgiveness/renewal. This lively and
self-reinforcing sequence shows up in the progression of
this psalm’s ideas, perhaps summarized in the activity of
“numbering our days.” In THE RACE: A Musical, the hero,
Dave, has trouble figuring out how to do that stock-taking.
If our days are numbered–life is
short–then we take account of them, grateful for a cherished
commodity: time. If we number our days to view their
progress, we may be able to count improvements. If we count
our days as evidence of God’s daily grace, we’ll thank God
for the world and the work we do in it. We may even slow
down enough to see each day as a collection of blessings and
opportunities.
Time and effort go into the
counting of our days, if only that it takes time to measure
what God accomplishes through us. It takes time to evaluate
our stewardship of days. It takes time to break through
shallow assessments and to get to the core of the matter: As
both sinners and saints we owe what we are to a God whose
ageless ways are full of grace.
This is a good time to number our
days so that we will use wisely the time God gives us.
Children’s sermon thoughts:
Using a number of calendars,
engage several children in an actual counting of the days of
their life. Page through the calendar pages, showing
children how 365 days comprise one year. Pile up or page
through several calendars to show how many days a 4 ½ year
old or 6 year old might have lived. Ask questions that help
children think about the way they’ve spent those days, such
as:
- How many really “good days” have
you had? Not-so-good days?
- On how many days have you been kind to other people?
- On how many days have you been happy about God?
- How many days have you spent eating? Sleeping? Thinking
important thoughts? Laughing? Crying?
- How many days do you hope to stay alive, and what do you
hope you’ll be doing during those days?
- What’s it mean “to be thankful one day at a time?”
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Why work?
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A sermon starter for Labor Day
Ecclesiastes 2
Use these thoughts and your text
study to prepare a simple-living sermon that you might
preach on or around Labor Day.
For workers and bosses alike,
today’s the day when the intrinsic benefits of work are
extolled. God’s people in the church think differently about
this matter than most of the characters in THE RACE: A
Simplicity Musical, whose mindless rushing through “work”
leaves them incapable of perhaps-more-important “lifework.”
The church also takes a slightly different tack on the
subject than does the writer of Ecclesiastes, that dour
fellow! In contemporary versions of Solomon’s wisdom, we
understand that God’s work–or God’s mission–is engaged
meaningfully by God’s people when they understand that their
vocations (or callings) contribute to God’s will in many
ways. They’re getting God’s work done, whatever they do and
wherever they do it, paid or unpaid.
Ask your hearers to think of God’s
viewpoint, with God wanting to get things done–creating and
sustaining the world, keeping evil in its place, redeeming
people from death and its ugly relatives, making good and
holy what otherwise would have gone bad. God thinks, “I’ll
get my will accomplished through my people who live and work
in the world.” God’s people think: “The part of God’s good
and gracious will that I help make possible is . . . .” Both
God and God’s people rejoice in their shared work.
Children’s sermon idea:
Using an oscillating fan and some
feathers or leaves, engage children in some “wind-chasing.”
Make sure they see that the effort is nearly useless. Then
engage them in this series of questions, until children run
out of logical-sequential answers:
- Why do people work? (To get
money)
- Why do they need money? (To buy things)
- Why do they need to buy things? (Answers will vary, among
them some variations on “To be happy.”)
- What’s “be happy” mean? (Answers will vary, probably
ending the stream of logic)
- Suggest that “being happy” may be like wind-chasing, and a
kind of ultimate futility. Tell children that another answer
to your first question might be, “To do what God wants to
get done.” Give some child-friendly examples, and finish the
children’s sermon by commending children for the work they
do–in their families, with friends, at school–to fulfill
God’s will for the world.
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A sermon starter in a time of great need
Luke 12:22-34
Use these thoughts and your text
study to construct a sermon related to lifestyle during a
time of crisis or important decision-making.
It’s inevitable–because none of us
in God–that some great need will come upon us all. A
calamity or tragedy or condition that threatens our
wellbeing or existence, an ominous trend that becomes
visible or a great and compelling sadness that grips the
souls of people–all of these may be matters that seem to
require worrisome activity.
According to Luke, though, God’s
people think and behave differently. With “death” defeated,
God’s providence already a proven promise and Christ’s
example cemented into their identities, Christians look at
calamity and think differently. The key: They can put God’s
work first. They can give away their lives. They can let
fear slide on by. They can trust God more than they trust
themselves.
Another tack: What, really, is the
end result of fretful, stressful living except more fear and
more worry? And what good is a brain that becomes a garden
for fear and anxiety? Brain scientists now know the answer
to that question: None, because a stressed brain is not
helpful except to fight, free or freeze. (Look at the spoken
and sung thoughts of Dave, the hero in THE RACE: A
Simplicity Musical, to see the mind of someone stressed
beyond his capability to handle work, family, life goals and
genuine happiness.)
So God’s people face times of
great need in search of the transcendence that only God’s
Spirit can afford, moving past self-pity and stress towards
the larger goals God has in mind for the world. By their
example, they draw others towards God’s saving presence. By
their courage and conviction they turn great need into great
opportunity.
Children’s sermon idea:
Engage children in a set of
questions about the value of worry. The questions might look
like this, depending on the children’s age:
- What do you worry about, if
anything?
- What does worry feel like inside your mind?
- Do you think birds worry? (How do you know?)
- What good does it do to worry?
- What do you think Jesus thought about worry?
At that point you move to a
retelling of the Bible passage, emphasizing Jesus’
nature-based reasoning. Close with a prayer for courage and
faith in times of great need.
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Discussion guide for small groups
Synopsis
This guide for a 90-minute small
group session takes participants through a mini-training
experience in the skill of “lifestyle conversations.”
Outcome
Participants gain skill in using
lifestyle questions within earnest conversations.
Materials
Newsprint and markers
Copies of a scene from THE RACE: A Lifestyle Musical, one
per participant
Activities
- Prior to the group meeting,
write the following questions on newsprint:
- How are things going for you,
really?
- What’s important to you these days?
- What eats at your satisfaction with life?
- What do you wish you could do more of? Less of?
- Introduce the session by noting
the power of earnest conversation. It provides
encouragement, opens new ideas, assures and comforts. Engage
as readers’ theater one of the scenes from THE RACE: A
Simplicity Musical --- Scenes 2 and 5 contrast with each
other nicely – and think together about the nature of the conversation(s) and how heartfelt interaction helps or
hinders the characters in the scene. Option: Tell a story
about the value of conversation in changing your ways of
thinking or acting. (20 minutes)
- Shift the focus of the group’s attention to group members
themselves. Ask participants to unpack the meaning or
importance of the questions you have written on newsprint.
(20 minutes)
- Gather participants into groups
of three (two conversationalists and one observer). Ask
groups to engage in an imagined conversation between two
friends. Somewhere during the conversation, they should use
one or more of the questions you posted earlier. (15
minutes)
- Debrief the conversations with
these prompts: What did participants notice happening inside
themselves? What would they have liked to pursue further?
What seemed satisfying? What was difficult? Which question(s) seemed most to stir interest or emotion? (15
minutes)
- In the larger group, share
observations for a few moments. Ask participants what other
questions might open possibilities for lifestyle change. (15
minutes)
Closing prayer
Ask for a spirit of joyful
expectation about the gift of earnest conversation and the
power of caring questions in helping others explore the
possibility of lifestyle change.
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At your service
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Discussion guide for small groups
Synopsis
This guide for a 90-minute small
group session provides discussion material about the ways in
which our technologies influence our lifestyles.
Outcome
Participants consider both dangers
and opportunities in the technologies that surround and
influence them.
Materials
Two or more common items of
current technology (or their symbols) (e.g., automobile,
laptop computer, personal digital assistant, electric mixer,
cell phone)
Newsprint and markers
Activities
- Place one item (or its symbol)
in view of all participants. Encourage discussion of the
following questions. Record participants’ responses on
newsprint. (15 minutes) • What value or service does this
item offer to those who use it?
- What qualities of life does this item enable or eliminate?
- What service does this item require – time, money,
attention – in order to remain useful?
- How could a reasonably satisfying life be lived in the
absence of this item?
- Repeat the previous activity
with another item, and then note the similarities and
differences between the two times of discussion. (20
minutes)
- Return to the first item, this
time thinking about the real or imagined effects of this
item’s manufacture, maintenance and eventual disposal or
recycling. Answer questions with the wider world–for
example, the environment–in mind. (20 minutes)
- Ask for participants’ personal
stories about times when technologies that were supposed to
make life better actually detracted from lifestyle quality.
(HINT: “Lifestyle” also includes one’s spiritual core.) (20
minutes)
- Talk together about what it
might take for any member of this group to live with less
technology than at present. (15 minutes)
Closing prayer
Pray for wisdom beyond both blind
acceptance and wholesale condemnation of technological
devices and proclivities.
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No other choice
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Discussion guide for small groups
Synopsis
This guide for a 90-minute small
group session provides activity and discussion material
focused on the painful reality that many families might have
no other choice but to live simply.
Outcome
Participants examine and accept
the possibility of involuntary simplicity in their own and
others’ lives.
Materials
Writing paper and pens or pencils
Newsprint and markers
Photocopies of current newspaper articles noting any of the
following:
- Financial risk
- Loss of jobs to overseas outsourcing
- Deteriorating housing market
- Rising cost of living
- Job insecurity
- Rates of mortgage defaults, personal bankruptcies or
credit card debt
Activities
- Referencing current news
articles, introduce the topic at hand. Note that
“involuntary simplicity” may increase over the next few
years. Using the newsprint, compare the term with synonyms
such as obligatory downshifting, running out of gas,
compulsory expenditure reduction, consumer debt crisis or lifestyle forfeiture. (15 minutes)
- Ask participants to imagine in
writing the specific circumstances under which their
families and they would have no choice but to begin living
simply. (15 minutes)
- Bring the group together and
ask participants to share what they have written. Then ask,
“If you were forced to live much more simply, what might
that look like?” Record thoughts on the newsprint. (25
minutes)
- Continue the discussion around
these questions, “What are the relative advantages and
disadvantages of voluntary simplicity? Involuntary
simplicity? (20 minutes)
- Ask the group to imagine a
series of “advisories” for individuals close to involuntary
simplicity. Record their answers on the newsprint. (10
minutes)
- Close with general
observations, noting moments of hope and satisfaction that
occurred during this time together. (5 minutes)
Option
If you are using this discussion
guide after a performance of THE RACE: A Simplicity Musical,
adapt the questions or discussion/sharing prompts to
specific characters or events in the musical, or refer to
touch points in the dialogue or plot.
Closing prayer
Ask for a spirit of joy in the
face of life decisions that are forced on you by
circumstances you cannot control. Praise God in anticipation
of adversity!
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Quotes for lifestyle education
Directions: Use any of these
statements or questions as quick-glance material in your
congregation’s newsletter, bulletin boards, invitations to
programs, and letters to congregation members. Some of these
may work as conversation starters, too.
- What are you going to do when you
finally have the most toys?
- Worrying about tomorrow is devilishly ineffective.
- “Sabbaths” don’t happen just on Sundays.
- Who have you really talked at with today?
- Over time, speeding kills you.
- We are beggars, all of us. (Attributed to Martin Luther)
- Who made you god?
- You aren’t the only who thinks life is getting crazier.
- How many ways can you say, “This is a dumb way to live.”
- When it comes to living well, Jesus has been there before
you.
- Be still and know that I am God.
- Now that you know what flowers smell like, what’s next?
- Grabbing and hoarding are not valuable life skills.
- What part of “living simply” don’t you understand?
- “No,” Stop” and “Enough” are the same word.
- Small joys can be big joys.
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Youth program
Synopsis
This outline provides help in
constructing a 90-minute program for a meeting of youth,
directed at the question, “Who’s that hiding behind those
masks?”
Outcomes
- Participants identify possible
ways in which their identities or self-worth get hidden by
their possessions.
- Participants gain courage to remove these material masks
as a way of discovering or showing what and who they really
are.
Biblical bases
Isaiah 44: 12-20; Matthew
23:27-28; Luke 16:15
Materials
- Bibles, one per participant
(preferably Contemporary English Version)
- Writing paper and pens
- Newsprint and markers
- A selection of youth-specific artifacts, such as:
| CDs or
DVDs |
Technological toys – iPODS, cell phones |
| Sports
equipment or uniform |
In-fashion clothing or accessories |
| Money or
credit cards |
Car keys
or new car advertisement |
| Beauty or
grooming aids |
Advertisement for beer or liquor |
Activities
- Direct participants to the
biblical references for silent reading, asking that they
take notes about interesting or challenging ideas they
find. (10 minutes)
- Referencing the Matthew 23 and
Luke 16 texts, direct participants to describe how any of
these artifacts of youth culture might be “masks” to hide
behind. Two questions: “What’s the mask/artifact supposed to
show about its owner or user?” and “What might really be
hiding behind the mask?” Use the newsprint to record ideas.
(30 minutes)
- Revisit the Isaiah text with
this question, discussed in small groups: “What might make
any of these items into an idol as dumb as the one Isaiah
describes?” (20 minutes)
- Use the remaining time for
participants to talk about their own struggles with “stuff”
and how they resolve those struggles in what they perceive
as godly ways. (25 minutes)
- Close with a time of prayer,
asking for both forgiveness and resolve. (5 minutes)
Option
If the group has experienced THE
RACE: A Musical, use the activities and prompts above in
reference to Tiffany, the shopping-addicted teen-age
daughter of Dave, the hero in the musical. Move past easy
condemnation – this character is painted broadly in the
musical – so that participants in your group can see into
Tiffany more deeply, more appreciatively and more caringly.
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Devotions for a stewardship team
Synopsis
This 10-minute devotional time
helps participants think how their desires for either “more”
or “less can affect this congregation’s purpose.
Bible reflection
1 Timothy 6:6
At its deeper levels, the life of
faith offers believers the joy of contentment, escape from
the additions of materialism, and the safety of sufficiency.
In writing to this first century pastor, Paul might have
been reminding him that the church helps its members to be
satisfied with their lives. Perhaps Christian congregations
today might provide the same benefit as the ancient church.
Sharing activity
- Participants are each given a
single index card. On one side is lettered the word MORE; on
the other side LESS.
- As you show participants
typical stewardship-related words or concepts from the list
below, ask them to indicate their hopes for the congregation
by holding up either the MORE or LESS side of the card. Use
any of the following words or concepts:
| Money
for this congregation |
Willing volunteers |
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People attending worship |
Members under 25 years old |
| Fame
in community |
Worship opportunities |
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Visits in homes |
Grace |
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Forgiveness |
Problems |
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Social ministry in community |
Staff members
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Overseas mission work |
Contributions to denomination
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- Ask participants to reflect on
what they’ve noticed about their reactions. If anyone has
offered a third choice–contentment characterized by
“enough”–talk about the reasons for that choice as well. Ask
how “more” and “less” match some of the purposes of the
congregation, or the work of this stewardship team.
- Read, summarize or adapt the
Bible reflection above, adding your own comments as time
allows.
Prayer
Lord of all the Earth, give to us
your Spirit’s gifts, so that in all our doings we serve your
will for the world. With gratitude for your abundance in our
lives, we commit our energies and actions to your care. In
Christ’s name. Amen
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Devotions for a congregational meeting
Synopsis
This devotional time helps
participants at a congregational meeting put into
perspective the value of the time they will soon spend
together.
Bible reflection
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
The significance of a moment can
sometimes be lost if we forget to notice and name what’s
important. The writer of this collection of Old Testament
wisdom reminds readers that as we progress through our
lives–including meetings such as this–we can rejoice in
God’s providence in all circumstances, God’s blessing of
human activity and God’s gift of measured and memorable
moments.
Sharing activity
- Welcome members and guests to
this meeting. This devotion will help those attending the
meeting to value the words, decisions and other actions that
will take place. The devotion helps answer this question:
“What good and godly time will characterize this meeting?”
- As background for the following
reading, play meditative music on a musical instrument or
through a sound system. After the music has begun, slowly
read phrases and sentences of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 in order,
pausing for the following interjections of another reader.
- Another reader intersperses
with the Ecclesiastes text significant passages–decisions,
summaries of discussion, reports–from the minutes or records
of previous congregational meetings. The end result: a kind
of choral reading, with each portion of the Bible passage
commenting on a portion of the remembered history of the
congregation’s annual meeting, and vice versa.
- Note that God blesses other
“times such as this.” From your own experience as a
congregational leader, add your own prayerful thoughts that
begin with the starter phrases, “A time to . . . . and a
time to . . .” For example, “A time to act quickly and a
time to refrain from action.” Or “a time to repent and a
time to forgive.” The music continues for a few moments
after the last part of the reading.
Prayer
Lord of all time, give us the
grace to see that you can bless all moments, all places, all
peoples. Send your Holy Spirit at such a time as this, when
we need wisdom and courage to do your will. We praise your
name and thank you. In Jesus’ name. Amen
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Directions: Print a copy of these
leader helps so that you can use them in a post-performance
setting following THE RACE: A Musical. Choose
discussion/sharing prompts that help participants talk
together, about both the subject and themselves.
General Prompts
- What struck you as particularly
important for your life?
- Which of the characters come close to people you know?
What would they think of the message of the musical
- What, really, is “The Race?” How do you know that?
- What’s the difference between “The Race” and “the rat
race?” How do you know that?
- What (important) subtleties did you hear/see/feel in the
musical? Why are they important?
- Besides the obvious messages of the musical, what others
come to mind?
- What does the musical invite you to do, personally? What
do you want to do now? How will you do that?
- What’s any of this have to do with “world hunger?”
- What would you change – amend, add or subtract – in the
musical? For what reason?
- What in the musical will be hard to forget? Why?
- With whom would you want to discuss this musical’s
message or meaning? Why?
- For what will you pray now?
Scene 1: The Morning Rush
- Talk about the usual mealtime
routines or interactions in your home. How do they compare
with what took place in this scene? How do you feel about
that?
- What does the song, “I’ve Gotta Run” reveal about Dave?
- Talk about the “success platitudes” you hear in the
script and in the song. What do they promise? What meaning
do they have or lack?
- Which Scripture passages jump into your mind as you
recall this scene?
Scene 2: Pump You Up
- Talk about times when you’ve
experienced “your whole future” riding on one event or
occurrence – e.g., Dave’s presentation. What happened, and
how did you react to it?
- What are your impressions of the gym patrons? What seems
familiar or unfamiliar?
- How could you deepen a conversation like this?
- What biblical story or parable connects with this scene?
Scene 3: In the Boardroom
- Talk about the “Mr. Biggins”
and “Mr. Middlin” folks you’ve known in your years of work.
What motivates them? What’s inside of them, really? How do
you get to know them or influence them?
- In your experience or frame of reference, how
true-to-life are the events that transpire in this scene?
- From Jesus’ viewpoint, what’s true and what’s not true in
the song, “It’s All Up to You”?
- Compare the thoughts and words of Dave with the thoughts
and words of other folks in this scene. Which connect with
your experiences, positively and negatively?
- What does Mr. Middlin mean when he says, “Funny thing is,
it’s already happening and you don’t even know it.”
Scene 4: Shop ‘til You Drop
- Talk about your experiences
with “veteran shoppers”, or with shopaholics. What’s going
on in their/your mind when SALE pops up?
- Some social critics have suggested that Tiffany – or her
attitude – is typical of most teens today. How do you react
to that statement?
- In the song, “There’s a Sale”, which of Tiffany’s words
make sense to you? Which don’t? What the difference between
them?
- In your own life, what’s the difference between hoarding
and finding a bargain?
- Talk about how you shop, and what happens inside your
soul as you engage in shopping.
Scene 5: Do You Remember
- In your life, who might Lily
be?
- Characterize the quality of Dave’s conversation with Lily
as compared to the other conversations in which he
participates.
- If your life was “simpler then”, what changed so that it
isn’t as much that way now?
- If your life was NOT “simpler then”, what has or hasn’t
changed?
- How would you describe a relationship based on
simplicity?
- Lily seems to know the Bible; what parts does she allude
to?
Scene 6: Back in the Ballgame
- Talk about the undercurrent of
any of the short speeches of the two gym patrons. What are
they trying to say? Why’s that important to Dave?
- To what emotions or needs do the gym patrons appeal?
- The platitudes abound once again. Name them and deflate
them.
- In your life, what’s the difference between “enough” and
“more”?
- What does “you’ve earned it” mean to you?
Scene 7: Exciting News
- Talk about decisions that
you’ve made that were dependent on the approval of others.
- In the song, “What Do They Want from Me,” Dave speaks
about “hating the man I have become.” Where do you see that
in yourself?
- When it comes to how you live your life, what words of
Scripture “cut you like a knife”?
- In the song, Dave prays to God, but what is his prayer
really? How can you tell?
- In this musical, who does Skip represent? If he wanted to
say more, what would he say?
Scene 8: Taking the First Step
- What would be a “first step”
for you to take – walking or dancing – in order to make your
life simpler? With whom would you take that step?
- In the musical, Dave pays a cost for his decision. What
would it cost you to retool your life towards “simple”?
- “God’s care” comes up often in this scene. How would you
hope God’s care would show in your life, were you to make it
more simple?
- Will Lily and Dave become closer friends? Will Tiffany
change? How do you feel about those questions?
- Think about the irony of finishing the musical with a
reprise of “I’ve Gotta Run.” What might be the composer’s
reasons for the return of that song? Where will you run, if
anywhere, when this time together is finished?
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readings to discover answers to some of your foundational
questions about lifestyle change. If possible, talk with
someone else about what you’ve read and what you’ve been
thinking. That way you get to be both a teacher and a
learner.
Simplicity
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In THE RACE: A Simplicity Musical,
“simplicity” and “simple living” dance with each other like
an old married couple: Comfortably close to each other,
moving slowly, content just to be together. (Perhaps like
Dave and Lily thirty years from now?) “Simplicity”
encompasses just about any human enterprise that’s engaged
upon with relative ease, or that’s relatively easy to
understand. “Simple living” is any part of daily living that
can be made more understandable, more manageable, and more
joyful. Here are some other ways to think about this
wonderful couple:
Simple living is as much addition
as subtraction.
You may already understand the
“stop doing this” part of simple living. But when you’re
living simple, you also add to your life what got pushed
aside in the hustle-bustle of accumulation. Some
simple-living adherents would even invoke “multiplication” –
of joy and satisfaction – the repeated addition of things
like serenity, calm, spare time, quiet, ease, possibility,
hope, friendship or savings. In the musical, what gets added
to whose life?
Simple living isn’t usually
flashy.
Most of the joys of simple living
aren’t super-charged. When you declutter and slow down, you
don’t get trapped into a razzle-dazzle identity or mindless
frolicking. Deep joy hangs around like the scent of lilacs
on a summer night. Extraordinary pops out of ordinary like
the seeds in a sunflower. What attracts you to simplicity?
There’s more to simple living than
meets the eye.
If you keep at it long enough,
simple living ends up as an insightful way of thinking and
being. When you engage in purposeful simplicity, you’re not
blinded by the mind-numbing stresses of the kind of “good
life” that drains money or energy. What do you see clearly?
Anyone can do this.
Great intellect, wealth, power or
spirituality are not requirements for living simply. If
you’re not forced to live this way, simplicity is a choice
you can make when you know that you want to stop being
foolish about the way you’re living now. What are you ready
to do?
Simplicity and simple living,
married and still dancing after all these years!
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How people change
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Right now you’re probably asking,
“So, how do people change?” Consider these possibilities,
each with some trappings of brain science attached:
Fear:
Fear not only motivates, but alters brain chemicals and
structures, sometimes in addictive ways. Once it becomes
habitual, fear changes behaviors long after the reason for
fearfulness is gone. (See any fear in the musical?
Example:
One of our at-birth skills is face recognition, followed
closely by mimicry. We change in response to what we see in
the faces and lives of others. In a sense, we read minds.
Identity:
The bonding and bridging mechanisms of our social brain
equip us to respond consistently to our perception of
ourselves inside of groups. We change when the group
changes; we resist change when the group doesn’t change.
(Who determines Dave’s identity in the musical?)
Imagination:
“What you can imagine, you can do” describes the function of
“mirror neurons” and the capacity of the brain to combine
present observation with short-term memory so that a
neuronal construct gets translated into corresponding
actions.
Actions:
Our brains are also superbly equipped for “acting our way
into thinking.” Thus our attitudes change because we engage
in activities that we later process, integrate and improve.
Mindfulness:
Lasting change comes when more parts of the brain are
engaged. Emotions, intellect, practiced actions and
attention are focused on a way of being or doing, and thus
the change is cemented into the brain’s interwoven workings.
Love:
You’ll read about it anywhere you read about simple living:
When love is received and shared, its power in our lives may
be stronger than any of the other processes listed here. In
some ways, love is overwhelming. Especially the love of God
in Christ Jesus.
So now do you know enough to be a
leader in lifestyle change?
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Being a lifestyle leader
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Have you faced this demon yet?
Here’s what it says: “And just what kind of a lifestyle
leader do you think you are, anyhow?” This fiendish imp
knows that you may live in a comfortable home, drive a
well-maintained car, eat three square meals a day and don’t
always keep your calendar from overflowing with ink. This
confidence crusher has a point: Not many of us are
completely exemplary when it comes to being a leader for
lifestyle change.
Demons aside, what might it mean
for you to be a “lifestyle leader”? These starter thoughts
come to mind:
Lifestyle leadership is more about
moving in a direction than reaching the perfect destination.
If we’re honest, we know that few of us are completely free
from materialism, fear of death or the temptation to rush
around. But lifestyle leaders can name the general direction
in which their lives are heading: Less stuff, quieter days,
less hectic daily schedules, or more attention given to
people around them. A lifestyle leader is heading in the
opposite direction from the rest of the crowd.
A lifestyle leader has a
“lifestyle conscience.”
Something inside lifestyle leaders acts like a brain-brake
when it comes to any notion that more is better. It’s the
kind of conscience that says things like “What if everyone
lived like this?” or “I’m satisfied” or even “Eventually
this behavior destroys something or someone.” It works well
because it gets used a lot.
Simple questions characterize a
lifestyle leader more than complex answers.
The matter of simple living is not all that complicated.
Someone who can help others live simply keeps asking good
questions, the ones that probe, insist, draw out, build up
or expose. Questions like, “So, how long do you think things
can keep going on like this?” or “What’s important to you,
really?”
The faces of lifestyle leaders
show smile wrinkles instead of worry-furrows.
There’s joy in living simply, and lifestyle leaders
understand that well. They’re glad to be free of their
stuff, happy to sidestep frenetic Saturday soccer schedules,
relieved that their credit cards are tamed, cheerful about
the future and delighted to have grown up.
Did any of this help you shoo your
demons back into their moldy caves?
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Encouraging each other
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Before you start working on a plan, it might be good for you
to think and talk about how well you find, gather and spread
courage. That’s right, “courage.” Guts, nerve, valor,
daring, bravery, audacity–you get the picture. The rest of
the picture: No courage, no action. No action, no change.
Here’s how encouragement works:
- Any good idea can stay
catalogued in the comfort of your long-term memory, but
that’s not good enough when it comes to changing your
behavior.
- Courage is one of the fundamental requirements for
motivation.
- You get courage from other people-from their example,
their words and their suggestions.
- Because you read, understand and mimic the faces of
people you admire, moments of encouragement are usually
face-to-face.
- “Encouraging” sometimes means that the encourager and the encouragee walk together, probably prayerfully.
So, how encouraging are you and
your congregation? Or to say it another way, who are the
encouragers? If you’d like to know, try some of these
actions:
- Revisit courageous moments in
your congregation’s history. Who were the leaders during
those times? How did they behave?
- Read the announcements, invitations or reports you include
in worship bulletins, newsletters, letters or annual
meetings. Where do you find courage, and where do you find
its opposites?
- Name the “Lily’s” in your congregation –don’t forget youth
and children here!–who seem to be able to inspire other
members to take action, to volunteer, to sense their
calling.
Once you’ve found the encouragers,
talk with them about their ways of thinking, their skill at
cheering others along, heartening people, giving confidence
or supporting people who otherwise might be hiding behind
fear, inferiority or false humility. Collect what you’ve
heard into a set of descriptive stories, and save them for
use when you’re looking for leaders who might have the nerve
to work with you in lifestyle change.
Can you see Jesus’ face? He’s
saying: You can do this!
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Some motivators
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Consider some proven motivators
that might work in your congregation as you prepare for a
lifestyle education emphasis.
Crisis and its cousins
Crises occur throughout life, and
they might be compelling reasons for members of your
congregation to work together towards lifestyle change.
People who are stressed almost to the breaking point, who
have come to the end of their ropes, whose addictions are
ruining them, whose guilt is overwhelming, who are
discontented and empty, and who are restless for reasons
they can’t name–these people are experiencing the kind of
quiet or loud calamities that might tip them towards
lifestyle changes. In the musical, what was the real crisis
in Dave’s life? How do you know?
The example of Christ
For members whose piety is strong
but whose lifestyles are disconnected from their faith, the
daily life and teachings of Jesus can be a convincing reason
to consider amending their lives.
The presence and example of others
People motivate people, and so a
congregational lifestyle emphasis can start with the
assurance that all around you are mentors, spouses with
vision, living legacies, grateful others and inviting
relationships–each a means by which lifestyle education
might begin. Besides the musical’s Lily, who provides Dave
with an example for living?
Known capabilities waiting to be
realized
Down deep, a lot of your members
know that they have the capacity to downshift their lives.
Helping them recall those capabilities can sometimes be
enough reason for them to begin new behaviors or to cast off
old habits.
Moments of change
Sudden 'aha's, spiritual
mountaintops, career change, check-in points or even
cataclysmic events - all can grip a person in the notion,
“Now’s the time to stop doing all that, and start doing
this.” Sometimes these moments are as quiet as a sudden
catch of breath or turned head. In the musical, what moments
of change come upon Dave? His daughter? His son?
However you name them, motivating
factors are available all around you, ready for your use to
good affect. A good place to start: Ask yourself and a few
others your reasons for moving towards simpler living.
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Avoiding common errors
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Somewhere in your distant past you
may have met a Prophetic Warning that wagged its gnarly
finger in your direction and said, “Sonny, beware the
Frumptious
Bagwog!” Or something like it, perhaps? Warnings are helpful
when it comes to helping others seek lifestyle change.
Here are some common errors that
the Prophetic Warner might have been telling you to avoid;
they flow from what you may already know or what others know
as well.
- Don’t count on
information-sharing or rhetoric. They don’t change
forebrains all that much, nor do they get at the emotional
decision-making functions of the rest of the brain.
- Avoid the presumption that the whole congregation will
get involved in the effort to change lifestyles. Most folks
will have deep difficulty in admitting that lifestyle change
might be one way in which God’s grace shows up tangibly in
their lives. Find a few folks who understand Dave (or Lily)
in the musical. Share your vision and begin there.
- Don’t make lifestyle education merely into a kind of
post-Yoga self-help class. These matters are deeply
spiritual! Materialistic and hurried lifestyles suck out of
God’s people the time and attention that they need to stay
connected to the Savior they claim to follow.
- Resist the temptation to start or plan big. Start small,
then trust this emphasis to develop like the early church
spread. Good news travels quickly among people who yearn for
manageable, purposeful lives.
- Don’t start with the problems you want to solve. Think
instead of all the capabilities that exist in your
congregation in order for this emphasis to begin and grow.
Build your planning on the assets–the useful gifts--around
you.
- Stay away from anger, arrogance or animosity. You’re
inviting people into something good, not using lifestyle
education as a way to secretly punish imagined miscreants
for their shortcomings.
When you make your own blunders,
trust God’s forgiveness and the abundant gifts of the Holy
Spirit to help you move forward.
And of course, always learn from
your mistakes.
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