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August 13-20, 2008

Will Bret Favre ever quit?

Warm-up Question:

When has someone encouraged you to give up on something and just quit?

 

Recently, Brett Favre, the legendary quarterback for Wisconsin's Green Bay Packers, has had numerous press conferences dealing with his wavering retirement. Since the ending of the 2005 NFL season, Favre has announced his retirement more than once -- only to come back the next season and play for the Packers again.

Brett Favre's career in its entirety has been successful due to his “I will never quit” mental attitude. Whether it was enduring the painful football practices of a high school team, overcoming a near fatal car crash in college, or rising above his failed first pass in the NFL (resulting in an interception returned for a touchdown), Brett has always continued to persevere. He has come back from deficits unimaginable: an ankle injury and surgery, the emotional crises of his father’s death (he played one of his greatest games the day after his father died), and recovery from an addiction to pain killers. Nothing has affected his "never quit" attitude.

Favre started in 275 straight games for the Packers, has earned three NFL Most Valuable Player titles, and has led his team to two championships. Just last season, at the age of 38, Favre finished runner-up for the National Football League's MVP. Despite these legendary accomplishments, there have been numerous conversations about him never being allowed to play for the Packers again. He has been told that his back-and-fourth uncertainty regarding his retirement has once and for all made him undesirable to the Packers’ organization.

With next season rolling around the corner, we can only wait to see if Brett's persistence proves to once again outweigh the odds. Favre was offered a 20 million dollar monetary “settlement” by the Packer's organization to stop playing football altogether. His love of the game seems to have led him to make another choice. Another team is willing to take a chance on his “I will never quit” attitude. Brett Favre has been traded to the New York Jets. Will he find a way to lead yet another team to victory? Can his “I will never quit” attitude prove once again to be able to outweigh the odds?

 

Discussion Questions

  1. Do you think Brett Favre should continue his legacy and keep playing football?
  2. How has Brett's “never give up” attitude helped him through difficult times in his life?
  3. Can anyone develop a never quit attitude or is it something you have to be born with?
  4. When have you felt that you had a “never quit” attitude? When have you felt like you had to quit? What was the difference between the two situations?

Scripture Texts (NRSV) for Sunday, August 17, 2008.
(Text links are to oremus Bible Browser. Oremus Bible Browser is not affiliated with or supported by the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. You can find the calendar of readings for Year A at Lectionary Readings.)

Isaiah 56:1, 6-8
Psalm 67 (3)
Romans 11:1-2a, 29-32
Matthew 15:[10-20] 21-28

For lectionary humor and insight, check the weekly comic Agnus Day.

Gospel Reflection
The Gospel text for this Sunday has to do with the “I will never quit” attitude of a Canaanite woman. In this story, she cries and begs for Jesus to have mercy on her and her daughter (who is tormented by a demon). Because she is not a part of the “lost sheep of the house of Israel,” both Jesus and his disciples reject her. She is persistent, however, and begs Jesus and says that even though she is not one of Israel's lost sheep, she still needs to be helped. Because of her persistence and her faith, Jesus has mercy on the woman and heals her daughter.

Jesus along with his disciples showed great concern for those to whom and for whom they were sent. At first, they ignore the Canaanite woman because she is not part of their group or faith tradition. When the woman asked for healing the first time, Jesus tells her, “It is not fair to take the children's food and throw it to the dogs.” The woman does not give up though. Instead, she brings up a good point by telling Jesus that “even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master’s table.”

There are two important aspects to this story. First, the woman does not give up in spite of rejection. Like Brett Favre, she has an “I will never quit” attitude. She was basically called a dog, yet she still overcomes this insult and continues to ask for the help and healing of Jesus. Had she not shown persistence, her daughter would not have been healed, and this story would not have much significance and would probably not have been retold over and over again and found its way into the Bible. She tells Jesus that even the least of us needs the help of God. We all need the help of God; however, it is through our faith that God's help can truly be given and received.

This Canaanite woman has complete faith that Jesus Christ will heal her daughter. This, perhaps, is the reason for her persistence. Just being persistent would not have caused Jesus to heal her daughter. But as Jesus points out, it is her “great faith” that causes the demon to be cast from her daughter.

There are plenty of times in our lives when we ourselves are persistent and have an “I will never quit” attitude. It is important to recognize this attitude in our own lives wherever we find it. When that kind of persistent attitude is channeled into faith in God, as the Canaanite woman was able to do, who knows what God can achieve in us and through us.

Discussion Questions

  1. What do you think of the woman's “I will never quit” attitude?
  2. What are some ways in which we can channel our persistence in a way that will help our relationship with Christ grow?
  3. How can we be more faithful like the Canaanite woman?
  4. Who do you often consider, or are tempted to consider, to be an “outsider” like the Canaanite woman?
  5. What would like to have the persistence to ask God about?

Activity Suggestions

The following are some challenge initiative game options that require little in the way of preparation or equipment. Just be sure to:

  • Use a space that has enough room to move around in safely
  • Set aside some time to talk about the experience afterwards. Talk about what people experienced or felt, what they observed or noticed, at what point they wanted to give up, what was gained or accomplished by being persistent (as an individual and as a group), what they learned about themselves and the group, etc.

Everybody Up

This activity begins with everybody in pairs and gradually expands to include everyone at once. Each pair sits on the ground facing each other, with each person’s feet against the other’s feet and holding hands. The goal is to pull each other to a standing position. When two people accomplish this task, continue to try it with more until everyone is in one group. It has been suggested that with more than eight people it is impossible to do in a circle, but that it is possible to do with another configuration.

Variation: The goal is the same except that in this version participants sit back to back. All other rules apply.
 

Group Juggling

Materials: tennis balls, different color bean bags, different soft objects, or have each person take off one shoe.

Begin with everyone in a circle and one object to be thrown. The first person throws the object across the circle to someone who then throws the object to someone else. Everyone should catch and throw the object just once, remembering whom they received from and to whom they threw. The first person to throw should receive the ball last. Begin the sequence again, continually adding objects so that the group is juggling as many objects as possible.

Whenever the sequence is broken or an object is dropped, begin the juggling again. Repeat until the group successfully juggles all the objects in the correct sequence or order.


All Aboard!

This activity requires working together in close physical proximity in order to solve a practical, physical problem. It tends to emphasize group communication, cooperation, patience and problem solving strategy, as well as issues related to physical self and physical proximity.

The activity can be run in many different ways. Basic method: Ask the whole group to try to fit inside a small area which can be marked by:

  • small platforms
  • circle of rope or twine
  • tarpaulin or blanket

When the group succeeds, decrease the area (e.g., changing platforms, shrinking the circle, or folding the tarp) and challenge the group to try again. How far can the group go?

Cautions: Obviously people are going to need to feel physically comfortable in order to get physically close and be supportive of one another. So make sure people are warmed up and preferably have removed excessive jewelry, watches, etc.

Variations Tarp Flip Over: With a group standing on a plastic tarp, blanket, or beach towel, challenge them to turn the tarp over without anyone touching the ground in the process. Adding a time limit can adjust the challenge factor.
 

Knots

A group of six to 12 people forms a circle. Each person puts the right hand into the center of the circle and clasps hands with one other person who is not standing next to him or her. Then everyone puts their left hand into the circle and clasps hands, again making sure that person is not standing next to them. They should be holding two different people’s hands. The goal is to untangle the knot without letting go of anyone’s hand.


Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father, please help us to be strong in both mind and faith. Help us to channel our perseverance in a way that allows us to be closer to you. Please, dear God, enhance our faith so that our relationship with you is constant and genuine. In Christ's name we pray. Amen


Contributed by Sarah Lendy ('08 graduate of Walter Payton College Prep High School)
Chicago, IL

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Pastor Scott A. Moore
Eisleben, Germany
 

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