Part
One: To Fish and To Feed: The Life of Parish Mission
"Follow me, and I will make you fish for people." (Matt. 4:19)
"Feed my lambs. . . Tend my sheep. . . Feed my lambs." (John 21:15, 16, 17)
Jesus calls Peter to fish for people. The risen Christ calls Peter to feed the children
of God. Missionary outreach and nurture of the faithful belong together. The mentoring
program is designed to facilitate mentoring pairs which nurture faith as well as to
connect with those outside the church.
Think of your congregation and community as networks of relationships. Where do the
people gather? What goes on in your church building during the week? In most
congregations people are gathering for one reason or another all during the week. The
choirs rehearse. The altar guild prepares for worship. Committees meet. Church school
teachers prepare. The pastor's office hosts those who need comfort, guidance, counseling.
The down and out knock on the door. Bible classes, youth groups, and other programs of the
congregation gather at the church. The community gathers in AA groups, community
organizations. The parish nursery school, latch key programs or vacation church school
draws member and neighbor to the building. Babies (or adults) are baptized, the dead are
buried, couples are married, people are prepared for first communion, confirmation, church
membership. And in the center is the presence of Jesus in Word and Sacraments at the
public liturgies of the church. Make your own list. You will be surprised at the number of
ways people gather in the life of a congregation.
Now ask yourself two questions. First, "who's missing?" One answer
would be that many of the congregation's members do not participate in these gatherings,
including the weekly gathering around Word and Sacraments. One could also answer that the
majority of our neighbors, who have no relationship with any faith community, are also
missing.
Second, "What difference would it make if we attached an invitation to
everything we do, directed to those who are not a part of any church or who are inactive
members?" Can we think of all of our activity as potential "ports of
entry" into the life of Christs Body? That means that pastoral acts would cease
to be "events" and become ongoing activity of the Spirit. Baptisms would lead to
support for parenting; funerals would lead to support in bereavement; weddings would flow
toward marriage enrichment. And the community would be invited to participate. Youth group
members would invite their friends in the community. Music programs would invite the
community to sing along. Bible studies would make public invitations. Support groups would
invite and welcome the stranger. Social ministry would invite those served to the life of
the parish. Those who attend worship services and the churchs education programs
would be visited and invited. The local congregation would be seen by the community as an
ally in raising their children, dealing with lifes most probing questions, and
answering the hunger for human community.
The church would continually be offering
credible invitations for its neighbors to explore their deep, but unfocused spiritual
hunger.
It is in this mission context that a systematic and disciplined program of one to one
mentoring can enhance a congregation's faithfulness to the Great Commission.
For many,
incorporation into support groups, Bible classes, and other communal activities will be
their "port of entry" into the life of a community of Jesus. But there are many
others who could be touched by personal encounters. Remembering that the Word always takes
on particular flesh in this world, consider some of the trends shaping the present world
in which we live:
In the previous generations of American religious life support for church activity
flowed across the generations. Today's generation of spiritual seekers often has no
support, family history or experience in the life, language, discipline or beliefs of the
church.
Remember with me a former time. A grandfather and grandson, fishing poles in hand,
plumbing the mysteries of grace and creation. Grandpa was a pastor, theologian, seminary
professor. He was passionate about three things above all: the Greek New Testament,
fishing, and the wet mystery of baptism. It was grandpa who sent me letters containing the
Greek alphabet and then a Greek grammar when, as a boy of nine or ten, I expressed an
interest in the pastoral ministry. As we fished together in the sweet lakes of Wisconsin,
he would recite parts of the "Iliad." One day he turned to me and said:
"Stephen, in your baptism, the only death you need fear is behind you."
As we hovered over the lake waters, Grandpa recalled for me the spirit that hovered
over the waters of St. Paul's Church in Chicago, connecting the baptismal waters being
poured over my infant head with the saving intention of the God of all creation through
the atoning death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Such encounters with mentors in the
faith occur less frequently in the lives of today's emerging generations, yet people are
no less hungry for spiritual wisdom.
- Even with less formal support from extended family as spiritual wisdom-givers, the
spiritual hunger remains. A Gallop poll finds that 59% of Americans surveyed said
religion plays a very important role in their lives, up from an all-time low of 52% in
1978. Studies indicate that both women and men are searching for at least one other person
to walk with them, to be a listener and wisdom giver.
- Studies have shown that less than 40% of any congregation will join a group, either
because they do not set aside the time for study or because they are reluctant to join a
class or group.
- In our mobile society it is increasingly difficult to put down roots in
long-term groups. Twenty percent of Americans move each year.
- The population of "baby boomers" and those younger are very
sensitive to top- down authority. They are often more at home in conversational styles
of learning where both have insights to share. This mentoring model is a relational way to
get at insights which in a former day were passed on by authority figures.
In a life where available time is stretched to the limit it can be very important to
connect with one other companion on the spiritual journey.
As we reflect on the list of "truths" about our present society, we want to
remember that the church never exists to merely reflect society. This program is not
meant to reproduce another evidence of and emphasis on the individual. The mentoring
pairs exists in the community of Word and Sacrament. They are opportunities to renew
spiritual lives within the communal life of the church.
Religion literally means "to connect again." ("re"=again;
"ligione"=ligament, connect).
This is Biblical. Witness God's plan of
salvation unfold encounter by encounter, one on one: Moses and Joshua; Jesus and
Nicodemus, the woman at the Samaritan well, at table with Zaccaeus, at the seashore with
Peter; Philip and the Ethiopian huddled over Scripture together, the glistening water of
baptism nearby; Saul and Annanias in catechesis 101; Paul with Timothy and Titus plumbing
the depths of ministry.
Think about your own experience. You can recall those who have influenced you in the
development of your own faith. A grandparent, a pastor, a friend, a spouse. Think of
your day to day experience as a Christian. People at the job and neighborhood who know you
are a Christian and active in a congregation may not make much of it (or may even be put
off by it).
But to whom do they turn when their lives are being torn apart? We keep talking about
"getting the church in the world." It's there already, wherever we live our
lives. An intentional mentoring program can help unfreeze the assets.
I invite you now to think about starting and nurturing the conversations which will
help your congregation to fish and to feed in the Name of Jesus.
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Written by: Stephen P. Bouman
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