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Confirmation
more than just business as usual!
A guide for assessing and strengthening your
present confirmation ministry program
Good news! There is no one
right way to do confirmation ministry in your
congregation! In fact, a quick review of present
confirmation practices in the ELCA reveals there is
incredible, refreshing diversity across this
church. Congregations serious about effectively
discipling their youth and adults shape their
confirmation ministry offerings in ways that work
best for their people, context and particular
circumstances.
If you are looking for a "cookie cutter" approach to confirmation ministry
you may be at a loss. They can be found. But again, present practices show that
effective faith-shaping congregations periodically assess the needs of their
people and the realities of their context to plan for experiences and
programming that will truly accomplish their vision for confirmation ministry.
This resource is a tool to help you and your confirmation ministry planning
team:
- assess your present confirmation ministry practices,
- reflect on six confirmation ministry approaches being modeled by
congregations of the ELCA,
- consider and weigh the value of ten elements found in many confirmation
ministry programs, and
- strengthen, enhance and perhaps even reinvent your confirmation program to
more fully reflect your vision for this ministry.
You have permission!
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Congregations can and must take that same attitude as they plan for a
confirmation ministry that builds on our rich Lutheran heritage while at the
same time boldly seeks ways to "strengthen the spirit" as it affirms Christian
faithfulness, discipleship and lifelong learning.
"Confirmation ministry is a pastoral and education ministry of the church
that helps the baptized through Word and Sacrament to identify more deeply with
the Christian community and participate more fully in its mission." -- The
Confirmation ministry Task Force Report, ELCA, 1993
Fortunately, congregations do not have to be permission-seekers. The ELCA's
1993 Confirmation Ministry Task Force Report strongly affirms the individual
congregation's role in shaping a vision for confirmation ministry in its
particular setting. This culmination of a five- year study does not attempt to
prescribe what congregations should be doing. Instead it offers an understanding
of what confirmation is; provides practical, concrete suggestions for creating
an effective confirmation program in the parish; and clearly lays out the
following understandings and recommendations:
Understandings
- Everything involved in confirmation ministry flows from Baptism.
- Confirmation happens in a living community of faith and is the
responsibility of the whole congregation.
- Effective confirmation ministry involves use of a variety of persons and
approaches.
- Young people benefit from confirmation ministry programs that include
diverse models of learning.
Recommendations
- That confirmation ministry be Gospel and grace centered both in content
and in approach.
- That confirmation ministry be tailor-made with an emphasis on community
building and faith to convey the Gospel in the congregation's particular
context.
- That congregations designate a confirmation ministry team to give shape
and direction to the planning and coordination of a pastoral and educational
confirmation ministry.
- That synods, the churchwide organization and seminaries be in partnership
with congregations in developing a broad variety of support resources such as
materials, networks and leaders.
Six Approaches to Confirmation Ministry
A review of present confirmation ministry practices in congregations of the
Evangelical Lutheran Church in America reveals that there are six broad
"umbrella" approaches to confirmation ministry. The defining lines for these
approaches are not hard and fast and congregations may draw from several models
as they shape their program. It is helpful to think of the approaches as a
framework around which a variety of elements are used to build a confirmation
program that meets the needs of the young people, their families, the
congregation and the community in which they live. The acronym L-U-T-H-E-R is an
easy way to remember the different approaches. Each description is followed by a
vignette from a congregation utilizing that particular format.
1. Large group-small group Approach
This approach reminds us that healthy relationships are an important
component to faith growth. In most cases, the confirmation session begins with a
total group gathering of youth and adult leaders. This is often a time for
worship and introductory activities that set the stage for the session's theme.
The large group gathering can also be a time for skits, singing, video viewing,
crafts, a meal, games, announcements, planning or project work. Typically, small
group time follows during which four to eight youth and one or two adult leaders
gather for a continuation of the session's theme through discussion, personal
sharing, activities and prayer. Small groups will sometimes meet independently
for field trips, service projects or fellowship activities. In some instances
the large group will meet monthly and the small groups will gather more
frequently and even in homes. The way the small groups are configured can also
vary. Sometimes youth will stay with the same small group each year of
confirmation instruction. Other congregations see the value of mixing the groups
up annually each year or even more frequently. In some cases, only the adult
leaders rotate. Grade or gender specific groups are yet another option. Some
congregations even invite older youth to be small group leaders.
Hosanna Lutheran, Lakeville, MN is a congregation totally immersed in
the small group model. Leadership is not recruited. Instead, discernment of
gifts and prayer play an important role in matching skills and abilities to the
call to ministry. Affirmation of Baptism takes place in ninth grade. Although
traditional elements such as memory work, attendance requirements, and even
final tests exist in this program, they are surrounded by an engaging,
innovative framework built on small group relationships.
2. Individual or self-paced Approach
The term individual or self-paced instruction rarely means that a young
person's confirmation experience takes place totally independent of others. In
fact, a congregation that using this approach needs to be very intentional in
providing many venues for the young person to be engaged in learning and social
activities that involve peers, family and strong connections with the wider
faith community. The idea of self paced instruction is based on the educational
premise that experiences are maximized when the learner has control over what,
how and when learning takes place. This approach often incorporates a "a
university style" of learning in which there are a certain set of core
experiences one is required to complete. This is balanced with opportunities to
choose electives based on interest, skills and spiritual gifts. Typically, core
learning involves the Old and New Testament, the catechism, worship and liturgy,
and the life and ministry of Martin Luther. Electives might include a visit to a
Jewish synagogue; a group project which has young people creating a drama on
Luther's life for Reformation Sunday worship; an independent undertaking using
computer skills for the congregation's newsletter; or community service
opportunities. In some instances, congregations give the young person and their
family options to begin confirmation at any time (usually sometime after third
grade) and regardless of how long it takes, the rite of affirmation of baptism
occurs when the young person is ready and has completed the required work. Other
congregations define the parameters more closely. The individual or self-paced
concept can also be a viable option within other models when barriers such as
distance, scheduling and physical disabilities exist or for any other reason
that the congregation's confirmation ministry cannot meet the needs of an
individual and family.
Zion Lutheran, Deerfield Beach, FL, uses a self-motivated, self- paced
program that is richly steeped in journey imagery. Anyone in the 4th grade or
older is invited to begin the journey at any time. It begins with prayer. When
the young person feels ready he or she writes a letter to the pastor stating why
they are ready to begin. This is followed by a meeting with the youth, pastor
and parents. Class work, worship, service to the church and community, written
expressions and relationships with a mentor are all a part of the required
expectations. Upon completion, the young person still makes the decision if and
when she/he is confirmed. For this reason, the rite of affirmation of baptism
happens several times throughout the year.
3. Traditional Approach
Make no mistake, the term "traditional" does not imply a program that is
dull, deadly, archaic or lacking in faith-shaping experiences. It refers to a
basic framework of context and content which, by its nature, is wide open to a
multitude of innovations. A traditional confirmation program typically meets
weekly in a classroom style setting utilizing a primary teacher who shares
content with students. The content generally emphasizes a study of the Bible,
the catechism and perhaps the life of Martin Luther. With this basic picture in
mind add pieces like mentoring, computer learning, guest speakers, an occasional
field trip or retreat, independent projects, service opportunities, and units on
sexuality, aids, discipleship, vocations, spirituality and current culture. Add
to this possibility cluster learning with other Lutheran congregations or
neighboring ecumenical partners, and soon this snapshot of a traditional
approach does not look so conventional.
An effective confirmation ministry program based on this approach relies
heavily on good, solid principles of Christian education such as: Each lay
catechist or pastor feeling assured of God's presence and guidance in their
teaching Attitude and atmosphere that sets the stage for safe, affirming
learning and relationship building regardless of the setting Considering the
learning style and unique gifts each young person brings to the learning
environment Planning interactive activities that call upon all the senses and
thereby invite, enhance and fortify learning Encouraging regular sharing of
personal faith stories Providing for variety in content and delivery that is
balanced with repeated rituals and patterns
Confirmation at Martin's Lutheran church, Casselton, ND begins with a
vision statement for confirmation ministry grounded in discipleship. While the
confirmation class activities led by the pastor and volunteer leaders may appear
to be traditional at first glance, their program is clearly described as a
seven-fold response to the command to make disciples. Confirmation classes
(called Discipleship training), family devotions, Sunday school, youth group
activities, worship, mentoring relationships, and community servant
opportunities comprise the seven mission elements within their traditional
approach.
4. Home and Family Approach
Regardless of which approach for confirmation ministry your congregation
uses, the home must always be considered as "first church" and parents as
primary partners in faith nurture. In fact, Martin Luther wrote the small
catechism as a guide for parents to help their children learn about the
Christian faith. The defining characteristics of this approach are the specific
roles parents play in the confirmation experience and the extent to which the
family is expected to participate. The range of possibilities of how this is
played out are numerous. In some cases, a home packet is prepared and almost all
the confirmation instruction is carried out at home or through family- based
projects. Other congregations invite parents to participate and learn right
along side their child, expecting them to attend all instructional sessions and
retreats and share in all projects and worship opportunities. Some confirmation
programs host several learning events throughout the year that parents and
families are called upon to plan and carry out for the entire group. Sometimes
families form small group clusters to work together on specific learning units
or projects. Family expectations for memory work, written assignments, home
devotions, service projects, and participation in congregational events offer
still more possibilities in giving parents opportunities to carry out the
promises made at baptism.
Grace Lutheran Church, Upland, CA was eager to put confirmation
instruction back into the hands of their parents by finding a better balance
between home and church. Parents provide instruction working with a take-home
packet that allows them to be attentive to their own schedules and their child's
preferred style of learning. Socialization, bonding and discussion of faith
topics with peers takes place several times each month in more relaxed,
recreational gatherings.
5. Extended Approach
For most congregations of the ELCA, middle adolescence is still the time for
some form of concentrated emphasis on learning and activities related to faith
development. The extended approach (sometimes referred to as "longer and later")
finds expression based on an understanding that confirmation ministry need not
be regarded as something that is only limited to the junior high years. A number
of congregations mark each year a young person grows with an identified event
such a first communion instruction in fifth grade or younger or a presentation
of a Bible and a special course on the Bible in 3rd grade. Other congregations
have carefully laid out a lifelong process that begins even before baptism and
continues on through high school as the parents, child and congregational
community share in the responsibility of lifting up repeatable affirmations of
baptism along the faith journey. In some situations, congregations have
addressed the "confirmation as graduation" attitude by moving the rite of
affirmation of baptism to the 10th, 11th or even 12th grade, thereby avoiding
the junior to senior high transition. Congregations using an earlier and/or
later framework will draw heavily from any of the other approaches listed here.
Small group settings, individual projects along the way, traditional learning,
retreats, intergenerational events, and of course a strong church-home
connection all may be included at some point in the extended approach to
confirmation ministry.
Calvary Lutheran, Grand Forks, ND call their extended approach
"Growing in God's Family". This congregation takes seriously the partnership of
congregation, parent and child in the faith journey. Beginning in Kindergarten,
specific opportunities for parents and children to grow in faith are outlined at
each age. A choice of a mentor is made in 9th grade. In the fall of the 11th
grade, students work on their personal faith statement and Affirmation of
Baptism is held on All Saints Sunday.
6. Retreat, Camp or Event-based Approach
The key to effective confirmation ministry is how well it matches the needs
of the youth, parents and faith community. To do this, a congregation must be
attentive to the culture and environment in which the congregation exits. A
number of congregations struggle with their confirmation ministry due to the
pressures of time and commitment placed on youth and parents from school, work,
extra-curricular activities and the community. Some congregations have faced
this reality by asking "what if we ask our youth and parents to commit to less
frequent, more intense opportunities for learning and relationship building?"
There are a number of obvious advantages to this approach. A concentrated time
allows for in-depth and creative teaching techniques that are often not possible
in shorter time frames. People may be more likely to accept leadership
responsibilities if they know the commitment is confined to a specific time
frame, resulting in a potential broader based of catechists. Add to this that
many adults and youth point to their Christian camping experiences as one of the
most profound faith-shaping factors in our lives.. While camp, retreats, and
specific events can be included in any of the previously named confirmation
ministry approaches, what makes this model unique is that these venues become
the primary context for teaching and learning. Some of the ways this approach
gets expressed include:
- a series of monthly retreats (using a variety of
overnight, day-long or weekend formats),
- participation in one or more
week-long or partial-week confirmation camps,
- participation in overnight or
weekend learning opportunities sponsored by the congregation, community, synod
or region. The downside to this approach is that if a young person misses an
event, a significant amount of learning and relationship nurture is lost. A plan
for make-up work or alternative experiences needs to be in place when a
congregation works with this approach to confirmation ministry.
Pastor Gerhard Kraus of Grace Lutheran, Tampa, FL explains that their
retreat centered program is based on monthly retreats including a week at
Confirmation camp. Format and locations vary: overnights, lock-ins, day long
events, weekend get-a-ways. Prior to the retreat, a study packet is sent to the
home in preparation for the event. Two family service projects a year are a part
of the expectations. They are using a variety of resources and are tailor-making
each session. Pastor Kraus says the parents, youth and staff no longer dread
confirmation ministry.
Ten Elements For Confirmation Ministry
Under each of the previously named umbrella approaches lies common elements
that further shape a confirmation ministry program in a particular setting. The
practice of ELCA congregations reveals at least ten elements that have been
effective in enhancing faith formation through confirmation ministry. A brief
description of each element follows with an illustration of how one congregation
incorporates that particular element within its confirmation ministry.
1. Mentoring
Mentoring links a young person with an adult member of the congregation who
exemplifies the Christian faith to share together in conversation, prayer and
other activities such as projects, recreation or service opportunities. A mentor
supports parents and is an advocate for youth in the congregation. Often the
pastor identifies potential mentors and carefully links that mentor with a young
person. In other cases, youth choose their own mentor. Sometimes older youth are
trained to be peer mentors.
Pastor James Peters of Emmanuel Lutheran points to "mentoring" as a
key, effective way to connect the congregation, youth and community in the faith
nurture process in inner -city Racine, WI.
2. Spiritual Gifts Identification
A number of ELCA congregations place high priority on helping their young
people identify and use their unique God-given gifts to fulfill their call and
mission in the congregation and in the community. Some invite their young
musicians into worship leadership roles. Others find creative ways to employ the
gifts of their young athletes, writers, dancers, computer experts, artists,
debaters, actors, cooks, story tellers and leaders in other areas of ministry in
the congregation.
The confirmation program at Prince of Peace Lutheran, Dublin, OH is
called Jubilation. It's identifiable mark is that on Sunday mornings, the youth
participate in four rotations that allow them to use their own particular gifts
in ministry. Each rotation has been given a name and lasts 8-10 weeks:
"Disciples" study the Scripture and catechism; "shepherds" serve as classroom
aides for younger children; "deacons" serve in worship leadership as acolytes,
ushers, readers, or nursery attendants; and "missionaries" participate in
service to the broader community.
3. Community service
Young people are eager to engage in a community service where they can put
into action what they are learning in confirmation, Sunday school and worship.
Social action projects for young people can be life-transforming experiences as
they see the world through new eyes or experience a diversity in cultures and
settings unlike their own. Service learning happens not only when we provide
youth and adults opportunities to work together but when young people recognize
their call as ministers in daily life.
"Building a community of servants" is the theme St. Paul's Lutheran,
Wilmington, NC uses to frame their service learning opportunities. These include
a week-long service camp in the summer, quarterly projects for the congregation,
and on-going participation in existing community programs (Salvation Army, Crop
Walk, American Cancer Society).
4. Memory work:
Memory work is a valuable component in confirmation ministry for many
congregations. They see memorizing the catechism, books of the Bible, selected
scripture passages and parts of the liturgy as an important way to build a firm
foundation for lifelong discipleship. Memory work by way of songs, games,
cooperative contests, interactive learning activities and even the computer can
contribute to strengthening Lutheran identity in maturing disciples.
The two small congregations of the Maynard-Wang Lutheran Parish, in
Maynard, MN clearly lay out confirmation ministry memory expectations that begin
in Kindergarten and continue through 9th grade. Daily devotions and daily prayer
are expected. Gratitude journals provide a way to encourage prayer (each day
young people list four things for which they are thankful).
5. Computer learning
While computers will never substitute for the spiritual formation that grows
through relationships, the church as an educating community is challenged to
embrace the technology and realities of computer age learning. There are a
variety of ways congregations engage the multi- media learner through use of the
computer in confirmation ministry: class instruction, individual self-guided
work, leadership development, program planning and even on-line prayers.
St. Luke Lutheran, Park Ridge, IL uses a modified large group-small
group approach. During the small group time and over a period of six weeks,
youth rotate through a series of learning centers including the computer center.
Here youth have an opportunity to put to use the skills they use daily at school
and at home as they delve deeper into the session's theme through available
computer programs.
6. Congregation connections
A value modeled by many congregations is their passion for connecting the
confirmation experience to the whole of congregation life. At baptism, the
entire congregation welcomes the child to the family of God and publicly affirms
a relationship born of the Holy Spirit. That assurance of belonging grows as a
young person comes to know their faith community as a place where they are safe,
loved, valued and respected. Spiritual growth is enhanced when youth are known
by name, prayed for daily by others besides parents and the pastor and called
into leadership, service and discipleship right alongside adults.
One tangible and interesting way the congregation of Taque Verde in
Tucson, AZ surrounds it's young people with love and affirmation is through
their confirmation stoles. Various members of the congregation sew stoles to be
worn at the service of affirmation of baptism. The young person's name, date of
confirmation, and faith symbols are embroidered on the stoles. Then at a
retreat, the young people add other symbols identifying their own gifts and
interests.
7. Parents as Partners
Families matter! Studies show that the most significant influence on a
child's faith formation is a parent who models Christian values. Parents are
summoned to take seriously God's call to be witnesses to their children and to
grow in faith maturity along side of them. Many congregations invite parents to
take leadership roles in the confirmation program. In some cases parents are
expected to attend classes. Others are given family assignments for learning
activities or service projects. A family devotional packet that includes prayer
helps, scriptural suggestions, discussion starters and family activities is one
of the most important ways parents can be equipped to nurture their child's
faith while at the same time grow in their own discipleship.
Grace Lutheran, Corvalis, OR, lays out ten expectations for middle
schoolers to be met over a period of three years. Expectations include such
things as service, worship, confirmation camp and eight 16-hour courses (4 core
courses and 4 electives).The unique aspect of this program is that parents are
expected to attend the core courses along with the youth.
8. Projects
A number of congregations are enhancing their confirmation program by
including "projects" that focus on experiential learning to help the young
person better understand the church and it's mission and to equip them for
discipleship in their setting. Projects might involve learning about Lutheran
heritage, worship, liturgy, community service, faith and daily life issues,
social issues, such as Aids or pornography, or even self-selected interests.
Projects can be done individually, in small groups or in family settings.
Grace Lutheran, Prosperity, SC has an innovative project centered
approach within a traditional approach. Projects include a "scripture project",
a "faith and life project", a "personal prayer project," a "statement of belief
project," a "service project," a "fun and fellowship project," and a
Baptism/worship project." Expectations include keeping a personal confirmation
journal, attending and participating in occasional council meetings, committee
meetings, home communion, synodical confirmation events and confirmation camp.
9. Worship and music
Worship is an important faith-shaper for a young person particularly when the
parents model consistent Sunday worship patterns. Confirmation ministry can also
be an opportunity for "youth-oriented", active music, worship and prayer. Many
congregations begin confirmation sessions with worship, often planned and
carried out by the young people. It's a time to learn new ways to praise God
through contemporary Christian songs and to be drawn into a deeper comfort level
with prayer. Retreats, service projects, trips and outdoor activities are all
opportunities for creative and meaningful worship.
Our Saviour's Lutheran, Arlington Heights, IL invites high schoolers
to work with adults in leading songs, prayers, skits and activities during the
large group time Confirmation time. Musicians, vocalists, drama buffs and
energetic leaders are called to use their gifts in worship and learning.
10. Cooperative clustering
Cooperative clustering with other Lutheran congregations or ecumenical
partners for confirmation ministry is a viable and valued option in many
settings. In places where numbers are small, leadership is unavailable, or
isolation is an issue, confirmation clustering pools people and resources to
benefit everyone. Some clusters rotate leadership by passing responsibility for
the session to each leader in the group. Others ask each leader to take a
primary role for a particular session. In some congregations, clustering happens
monthly or quarterly as a supplement to enhance what each congregation is doing
separately.
Eight congregations in the Mariposa Conference, Pacifica Synod, CA
gather monthly for a day long confirmation event based on the seasons of the
church year. Leadership rotates and the format and location vary according to
the planned activities. They begin with an "Affirmation of Baptism" pool party
and each liturgical season involves an interact field trip or event. For
example, the Advent study took the group to a maternity ward. During Lent, the
group engaged in a simulation game and other activities to raise awareness about
homelessness.
Writer: Diane Monroe
Contributors: Mark Gardner, David Poling-Goldenne
Editor: David Poling-Goldenne
Design: Sharon Schuster; Publications Plus, Inc.
Copyright 1998 by the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, 8765 W.
Higgins Road, Chicago, IL 60631. 800/638-3522. Produced by the Education and
Evangelism team of the Division for Congregational Ministries.
Permission is granted for
congregations of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America to reproduce this
resource for local use.
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